Pardon for the hostility in the title :).
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is nothing. When trying to lure or entice, sometimes the best secret is be yourself, lay back and relax. Just drink your damn coffee. In the end, you will in the very least be caffeinated and ready to face the day.
Take the lead of the cold hearted b- be measured and controlled all the way through. The only other advice- move slowly and gracefully- there’s bound to be someone paying attention.
Have a great day!